Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

I found out about her first kiss from a myspace survey, and after that i found out about how many times shes kissed a guy from surveys too.



should i be offended about this? because i tell her everything..



and she already made it clear she wasn't going to tell me when she lost her virginity.



like, she's a perfect best friend except she doesn't always tell her everything. i've had to ask her about all kinds of stuff because she wouldn't tell me. like on surveys, it would say like 'how many times have you kissed the last person you kissed?' or something and she's say 3 or something, and it makes me a little upset she's not telling me everything. i'm not excepting her to tell me absolutely everything, but it's still bothering me a little.



Example, the first time she ever kissed a guy i found out on myspace. and it ended up she had gone to a bonfire and this guy was there and she went to his house and made out with him and everything. i was a little upset that she didn't tell me this.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

lol!!! i agree wit previous poster. to be teen and have this the biggest prob ever!!



sorry, seriously, does she have to tell u everthing? its ur choice to tell her things but maybe she's a private person or doesn't feel comfortable tlking to u bout stuff like that. u said she was the perfect friend otherwise so leave it go or else ull drive a wedge between ye and lose her as a friend.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

be very offended



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

yes, i would be offended.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

She knows you look on her Myspace.. MAYBE she did tell you in a round about way ..



Ha.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! man she has a right 2 keep some things 2 herself!!!!!!relax and don't b so desparate 2 know everythimg and mayb she will tell u some stuff on her own!!!!!!!



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

There should be an age requirement for Yahoo Answers.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

yes, i mean she should not have to tell you when she is hsving the panters in but the first kiss in a big step



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

I wouldn't be offended. There's some things I don't tell my best friend, and she has things she doesn't tell me. She tells me the important stuff, and that's enough.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

no, don't be offended. just because someone's a good friend does not mean they give up their right to their life! just relax! it's really no big deal! you can only control you not anyone else, so just roll with the flow. be glad when she tells you something and don't take it personally when she doesn't! You guys will stay good friends much longer like this!!



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

no, u can stop telling her everything but there's no reason to be offended.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

maybe she just doesn't trust you enough, she may have valid reasons. talk to her about it.



Should I be offended that my best friend hasn't told me about this?

I think what she tells you and what she doesn't tell you is HER choice!



There are somethings even a best friend has a right to keep to herself if she wants too.



I wouldn't be offended, maybe there was a reason why she didn't tell you..



It could be that for some reason she thought it might hurt your feelings if she told you.



Or that she was embarrassed by what happened and just didn't want you to know.



Whatever the reason is, I don't think you need to be offended, but just respect her enough as your best friend to realize that even a best friend has a right to their privacy and move on!

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