So it started out really cool. before we officially went out we kicked it a little bit and had tons of fun every time. so then he asked me out... which is when things began to get weird. he kinda stopped calling/ texting me as much but he was still cool... the thing was tho was that his myspace about me section still said that he was single... that irritated me a little bit a did a couple of myspace surveys over a couple of days where i implied that i go out a lot, have many guy friends... etc.
but at the same time i did say that i was in a relationship... as time moved on things just started to get worse... matter fact most of the time what happened was that he said he was going to call but then never did... so i would try callling/texting him first but after that has happened too many times i stopped doing that ... then one time he came to visit me at work...and everything was totally cool with us... but later the next day when i checked his page it ...
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he changed his about me section and said even more clearly that he was single.... that really pissed me off and i decided to not even talk to him and see if he would try to contact me first... he didn't ( except a forward that i recieved from him in about a week... that said to send it to ten people he want to be with) i never replied to it. The thing is tho that my friends all told me that i shouldn't be with him in the first place... but he just has a really great personality (someone i'd want to have as a friend) and i know it seems that he's the *** in this situation but i think that it was my fault too.
for example i've mentioned it numerous times that i can't wait till i'm 18 so we can go clubbin...' He also knows that i have a lot of guy friends ( but he got a lot of female friends too tho...) Im afraid that maybe the way i acted made it seem that i wasn't really interested in him or something... or maybe it was that i told him that i didn't want to have sex too soon.. help me?
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Don't sleep with him to try and make it better. He obviously doesn't think that you two are in a relationship and that you are just a girl that he sees. I know it sounds hard, but you should expand your options and date other boys. Change your profile to single and don't chase him too much. Give him some space and go out and have some fun if you want him back. Don't call him. He'll think about how much he misses you (if he even does) and will call you when he's ready.
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Ehh, is he funny and outgoing? Attractive? That makes me scared. Hah, I'm in the beginning stage of that. Good God I don't hope it goes out like that. : Z
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Honestly, it sounds to me like he's a prick. You don't need him.
He was probably turned off by the idea that you don't want to have sex right away. Which, don't get me wrong is a valid point-- but that should not change what you desire or think. He probably just wants a girlfriend to have sex with him and that's it.
Forget him.
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change your "relationship" section to single too!
see if he will react to it :D
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ok hun let me help ya by first saying you need to be clear with men ok. I know you're young but sometimes us women have to set the pace after all a relationship is getting to know someone better and enjoying one another. Ok its obvious thta you want him back. So tell him how you feel and then ask him why were you claiming single on your myspace once we began dating? One question at a time and please do good with listening. Ask him how he feels about you and ask him should we try again or is friends a possibility. Tell him what you like. Us women have to remember that its our responsibility to show men how to treat us. Its up to us to help them learn what we like and dont. Getting angry at someone without teaching them isnt right in my opinion. If he was taught and still didnt learn thats his fault. We teach men how to treat us. So tell him I like how we used to text message and call eachother a lot. This is my quote. "Follow your heart using your mind yet dont be a fool." Listen to you intuition and do what makes you truly happy ok. Good Luck!
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ok you are under 18 i got from part of your Question so i wil tell that it is life and there willl be other guys. if he don't want to put the is in a realtionship don't worry about it. maybe he jsut didn't feel like changing his whole profile for something that may not last
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